My last blog was on the occasion of my wife Pooja’s birthday about 45 days ago. Just when I thought it would take some more time to get back to writing a blog, another special person’s birthday comes across. Today is Shivam Naman Sinha’s birthday.
There are some friends who you look up to as role models in certain aspects and want to emulate them. There are also some friends, whom you just feel like chilling around with and sharing all your joys and sorrows. Shivam belongs to the second category. Talking to him calms you down and makes you realize that it’s ok to screw up things and everyone else is also screwing up things. Life is not perfect at all and Shivam has the uncanny ability to accept it calmly, laugh it off and move on. I haven’t seen him cribbing or whining about spoilt milk. He’s had his share of raw deals and missed chances but he’s always laughed it off and come out stronger.
When I was just about to become a dad , everyone around was giving a lot of advice on how to do this, how to be that ideal dad etc but then I spoke to Shivam . Shivam being Shivam, he calmly explained to me the practical side of what you can’t be and some examples of how he has messed up in certain situations. It calmed my nerves and made me breathe easy.
Shivam works calmly under high-pressure when deadlines are approaching and it brings the best out of him. This has been his strength since college days. During our XLRI days, Shivam had multiple nick-names. One of it was “Undead” for his exceptional ability to be awake through the night and still be fresh during the day. He was equally adept at being the DJ for the in-house college parties just hours before an important presentation deadline and still create a great presentation.
The other great quality of him is his ability to completely switch off from work once he’s back home. He ensures he takes two vacations a year at the minimum to spend time with family. Small but significantly important things. In my friend’s circle, there is one set of friends who are only thinking about savings and investments. Shivam does his basic bit here but for him, enjoying the now is much more important than worrying about the future. Not worrying too much about the past or the future is a quality which very few people possess and Shivam has got this.
Amidst all the busy-ness of corporate life, Shivam still manages to ensure that he attends every outstation trip which our group of friends plan every year. Every year, there are one or two people in our group of eight who cant make it but for Shivam, the trips are an equally important priority. A chai-lover, Arsenal loyalist and an expert “candid photographer “, trips and hangouts with him are always fun. He has a regular collection of funny anecdotes which he repeats in every trip but you still can’t help laughing every time.
Shivam’s favorite quote is “ Attitude is matter”. In a world filled with people who invariably end up becoming part of the corporate rat-race, Shivam stands out as a refreshingly calm, level headed, “take-it-easy” personality who is always willing to help out. He may never have topped the class for his academic abilities, but for his sportive attitude, he will be right up the charts.
Shivam Naman Sinha – here’s wishing you a happy birthday. Hoping you wont change one bit in the years to come as well.
Cheers to lots of Chais , photographs, trips and “Siskaaris” (Even Google wont tell you what a siskaari is -you need to know Shivam to understand the meaning of this 😊)
P.S: I could have gone on and on about Shivam but it would go against his personality trait of less gyaan , more action and keeping things short and simple.